[WSBARP] How to remove adult children who refuse to leave parents home

[Paul Neumiller]

I agree.  I once had to evict a step-daughter when her father died and she believe she could continue to live in the step-mother’s house forever with free rent.  It gets real ugly real fast when you have to post eviction notices on the kid’s bedroom door (but it worked.)  That said, with the new UD laws, I could see a kid telling the judge just unfair the situation is and maybe get a reprieve.  It will be interesting to see how the judges will weigh the equities and fairness of the situation under the new statutes.


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From: wsbarp-bounces at lists.wsbarppt.com <wsbarp-bounces at lists.wsbarppt.com> On Behalf Of Eric Nelsen
Sent: Wednesday, January 29, 2020 4:50 PM
To: WSBA Real Property Listserv <wsbarp at lists.wsbarppt.com>; jeff at bellanddavispllc.com
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Subject: Re: [WSBARP] How to remove adult children who refuse to leave parents home

I agree with Roger that mediation/counseling in the family dynamics, NOT mediation of legal issues, would be more likely to have long-term benefit here.

That said, if the parents have had it and are really intending to go the legal route and essentially sever the parent/child relationship (which happens and I am making no value judgment; everyone has a limit on what they can take), I would suggest consulting with Loeffler Law Group, https://www.loefflerlawgroup.com/<https://nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.loefflerlawgroup.com%2F&data=02%7C01%7C%7C1dcff3e0cb6342fb595308d7a51f0022%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C637159424888137104&sdata=f5PBF4yBMiHX%2FNsgkmWIjT17ohXGzvH0PAgSI%2B5SQcM%3D&reserved=0>. Ejectment is the procedural route, or a demand for rent followed by unlawful detainer if they fail to pay.

Sincerely,

Eric

Eric C. Nelsen
Sayre Law Offices, PLLC
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Seattle WA 98144-3909
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From: wsbarp-bounces at lists.wsbarppt.com<mailto:wsbarp-bounces at lists.wsbarppt.com> <wsbarp-bounces at lists.wsbarppt.com<mailto:wsbarp-bounces at lists.wsbarppt.com>> On Behalf Of Roger Moss
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Cc: mindy at bellanddavispllc.com<mailto:mindy at bellanddavispllc.com>
Subject: Re: [WSBARP] How to remove adult children who refuse to leave parents home

M-E-D-I-A-T-E (non-traditional modes).

There is a 100% likelihood that behavioral health challenges are operating in this scenario, so social services and other support is crucial to obtaining results while minimizing emotional trauma.
Roger A. Moss
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Dictated in motion

On Jan 29, 2020, at 4:18 PM, Jeff Davis <jeff at bellanddavispllc.com<mailto:jeff at bellanddavispllc.com>> wrote:

Listmates,

Two adult children (22 & 25) refuse to leave the family home.  They have lived there all their lives, do not pay rent and told their father he would have to sue them to get them out?  Before I bring an ejectment action; do any of you have another idea as to how to remove these recalcitrant children.

Jeff

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