[Vision2020] Civility is a two-way street

[Scott Dredge]

Ted / Joe,

FWIW, I'm speaking for Gary because I truly do not want to see him make complete asses out of the both of you on this site on this issue and I'm trying to explain this in a way that I *thought* would make sense to both of you.  Gary's not going to follow your idea of proper list server etiquette.  He doesn't give a good God Damn if anyone thinks his posting of a private email was unethical.  He posted a private email to let everyone know he received it and my guess is that he would prefer to receive no more emails like it (or maybe he would like to receive them and so he can post them publicly again).  So don't send any to him.

Gary can waste his time responding on this but he's going to make both of you look just plain bad.  If you want to go toe to toe with Gary, be my guest.  Just be aware that Gary is a street fighter and he's not going to play by whatever rules you think he should play by and ultimately he's going to bait both of you into looking very foolish.  He's good at it.  Beyond that, he's not emotionally charged by this issue like you and Joe are which is what started this whole foolish nonsense to begin with.  He's not the one keeping this thing alive, the two of your are along with a little help from HeirDoug posing in drag.  If you want this issue to go away, then drop it.  I've got nothing more to say on it so I'll just stand back, watch the carnage that Gary dishes out, and just shake my head.

Take it away Gary, I'm sure this is going to be child's play for you but I've done my best to warn both of them...

-Scott

----- Original Message ----
From: Ted Moffett <starbliss at gmail.com>
To: Scott Dredge <sdredge at yahoo.com>; Joe Campbell <joekc at adelphia.net>
Cc: vision2020 at moscow.com
Sent: Sunday, December 2, 2007 11:34:29 PM
Subject: [Vision2020] Civility is a two-way street


Scott et. al.

You write as though you are Gary Crabtree's conscience in this matter,
when you write that "He's more than happy to move forward."  Let Gary
speak for himself.  Why are you speaking for him?

Also, Joe's recent response to Gary in this thread was correct in
pointing out that the assumption that Gary might have posted the
recent re-posting of Joe's private e-mail, was not based on
"non-existent evidence," as Gary claimed.  The fact Gary originally
posted this private message, and has disputed with Joe many times on
Vision2020, is evidence to suggest Gary might engage in this conduct
again, to undermine Joe's recent post with this subject heading,
responding to Atwood's Daily News Op-Ed.

Also, your argument immediately below, attempting to remove any
responsibility for objectionable list serve conduct on the part of
Gary for posting of a private e-mail, is questionable.  It is accepted
by almost all on this list serve that private e-mail not be posted to
the list.  If this was happening with regularity, it would certainly
undermine the health of this list, based in part on trust between
people for respect for their privacy.  I do not know all the details
of the case with Wilson and Morin you refer to, but I doubt the two
examples are precisely analogous.  I have received insulting private
e-mails from Vision2020 list members (along with a much larger
percentage of positive private responses!), but I have never responded
by posting these insulting private messages.

Scott wrote:

Sending Gary an insulting email was your fault.  You apologized.
Nothing more needs to be said.  Trying to pin any blame on Gary for
forwarding it v2020 is as weak to me as Doug Wilson's complaint
against Terry Morin for posting supposedly secret documents for the
whole world to see Doug as a rotten, lying skunk.
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Vision2020 Post: Ted Moffett


On 12/2/07, Scott Dredge <sdredge at yahoo.com> wrote:
> Joe,
>
> When this brouhaha first came to light, I recall you apologizing and
 Gary Crabtree accepting the apology and saying something to effect of
 "let's move on".  Gary isn't the one being petty about this and I'm sure
 he'd like nothing better than to move on to scoring more debate points
 on v2020 which is something he does very well being the master debater
 that he is.
>
> Sending Gary an insulting email was your fault.  You apologized.
  Nothing more needs to be said.  Trying to pin any blame on Gary for
 forwarding it v2020 is as weak to me as Doug Wilson's complaint against Terry
 Morin for posting supposedly secret documents for the whole world to
 see Doug as a rotten, lying skunk.
>
> There's not much you can do about Dale or HeirDoug reposting it again
 and again.  They don't quite understand the whole "I'm sorry, I made a
 mistake, I'll try not to make the same one again" scenario.  What else
 would you expect from disciples of a rogue pastor who makes all sorts
 of ludicrous statements and never refutes them because in his own mind
 it's a weakness to admit to any mistake (no matter how painfully
 obvious)?
>
> My advice is that when Heirdoug plays this card again - and you know
 he will because he's not very creative - leave Gary out of the mix.
  He's more than happy to move forward.
>
> -Scott
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: Joe Campbell <joekc at adelphia.net>
> To: vision2020 at moscow.com
> Sent: Sunday, December 2, 2007 8:46:50 PM
> Subject: Re: [Vision2020] Civility is a 2-way street.
>
>
> Ted writes: "...given Gary Crabtree was the fully
> disclosed source of the original posting of this private e-mail, in
> violation of the 'rule' that private messages not be posted to
> Vision2020, it is reasonable to assume he might engage in the same
>  conduct again, correct?"
>
> Gary writes: "Making assumptions based on nonexistent evidence is
>  generally
> ill advised."
>
> Your NAME was on the the posted letter. How is that a lack of
 evidence?
>
> For the record, I don't think you posted the recent letter. But you
 did
>  post the
> initial PRIVATE letter -- precisely so your Kirk friends could
 re-post
>  it over
> and over and over again. So it isn't exactly as if you are without
>  blame!
>
> I await your insults, fallacies, and evasions. If nothing else, they
>  provide a
> source of amusement to the other readers.
>
> -- Joe Campbell
>
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