[Vision2020] submission

[lfalen]

There has bee a lot of discussion on submission from a biblical prospective. I don't chose to discuss it in that context.
One should submit to a higher authority on the job or in the military, with in the bounds of what is ethical and moral. Marriage
should be a 50-50 deal. One partner should not be subservient to the other. Each one should support the others interests  be it horses, 4-H, politics, gardening, etc, whether they are particularly wild about it or not. Around the house I usually do thing my wife's way. If it pleases her that makes me happy. This is not being submissive. It is getting along and respecting your spouse. We both work. I usually do the day to day cooking, she does the big family dinners, she usually does the laundry, we both clean house and take care of the livestock. A marriage should be a give and take situation. No one should be dominant or submissive.

Roger