[Vision2020] Why doesn't the Sisterhood learn to shoot?
Ted Moffett
ted_moffett@hotmail.com
Tue, 18 Feb 2003 05:05:17 +0000
Don, et. al.
Speaking of those "blinders" ... did you take them off? Or is this more
devils advocacy?
So women who were raised in and married in a fundamentalist Christian
religion, are supposed to, according to you:
"...organize, take over and change the rules. Or change sects. Or start
their own sect. Or stop whining..." Right! They then face possible
divorce from their husbands, ostracism from the community they have called
home, and rejection from the God they sincerely believe is the true God who
has ordered through the divine word of the Bible that women are to be
obedient to their husbands. Consider the Southern Baptists, for an example
of this approach.
The options you outline are easy to advocate, difficult to practice.
Also consider Catholicism. You can forget the "take over and change the
rules" possibility. When do you think the Pope will be a women? Or that
women will be doing Mass? Patriarchy at it's most institutionalized!
And it's easy to say but much more difficult to tell someone to abandon
their faith.
As far as "whining" goes, many of these women DON'T WHINE. But that does
NOT mean that men are not a factor in the social forces involved in
influencing these women to neglect competency in self defense. And that
these same men do not tell these same women that they will defend them,
don't worry darling!
This is all I was saying, stating what is a sociological fact, that you
seemed to overlook: men actively are involved in influencing many women to
be helpless and dependent, and not only via the influence of male dominated
religion. How many tough macho men just dig defending their smaller weaker
women friends, and tell them as much?
Are you going to assert that men to not engage in these behaviors?
The flip side of this psychology involves the opposite behavior of men
defending "helpless" women, but often is oriented toward again inducing
helplessness and powerlessness: the shocking number of women who face
physical violence from men, and if they fight back they just get it worse.
Are you aware of the rates of violent rape and domestic violence against
women in America? And that much of this violence does induce a psychology
of helplessness? Oh, I forgot, women are all expected to be super women
karate weapons experts and kick ass, I take it? The military solution is
just what America's families need to solve the problems of domestic violence
against women. Give me a break...
Ted
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