Subject: Re: [Vision2020] Too sexy...?

[Eric Engerbretson]

P.S. I would also question the judgment of a person who signs her kids 
up for a school, signs an agreement stating that she authorizes the 
school to spank her children, and then complains when it does what she 
authorized it to do.

I would question the judgment of a person who pays a great deal of 
money to have her children in an abusive place for four whole years.  
She either knew it was abusive when she signed up, or she didn't.  
Assuredly, she didn't know in the beginning. I would call her negligent 
for not researching the facility to which she was handing her kids 
over. If it took her four years to find out it was abusive, I would 
call that negligence, which is another form of abuse. If it was an 
abusive place, I would question her judgment and perception as she 
shelled out "$30,000" for these people to abuse her kids. If she was so 
out of touch with her kids and their teachers that it took her four 
years to figure it out, I would be certain that her perception was 
lacking.

If her perception is so in question, I would not listen to a word she 
says about anything unless she has physical proof and witnesses. If she 
offers to show those things to me, I would gladly look at them. But 
only if she offered to show them to me at an appropriate place and in 
an appropriate manner. The last time she tried to show them to me was 
in a completely inappropriate manner at a completely inappropriate 
place (the Christ Church town meeting). This makes me again question 
her judgment and perception of reality.

PLEASE know that I am not out to hurt her; I am terribly sorry for her 
situation. Whatever she has experienced, whether real or perceived, has 
been excruciating for her, and I am very sorry she has had such a hard 
time. I am, quite literally, praying to God that she will be granted 
peace and resolution.  But when she chooses to go public with lies, 
exaggerations, and misperceptions-- when she chooses to attack people 
that I know to be some of the kindest, most loving, people I have ever 
met-- people who make huge sacrifices because of their love for 
children-- she is making war on me, too.

I love this woman with the love of Christ, and with the forgiveness 
that I humbly ask for myself-- but I want to encourage those of you 
watching from the sidelines to use your brains as you listen to the 
myriad accusations flying about, and consider their source, before you 
form, or further, unfounded opinions.

Sincerely,

Eric E.