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<b>Subject:</b> [WSBAPT] needlessly nasty estate admin<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Say spouses H and W have reciprocal wills and a community-property agreement, both well-prepared and legit, and H dies. H's child, A, wants a piece of the estate
and spends a great deal of energy working on W, who gives A several items and some money. A wants more and files with the court what looks to be an invalid later will (questionable witnesses and no notary) and sends W a letter demanding more of the estate.
No probate is necessary because the estate assets are all community property and, fortunately, are titled in the names of H and W. W wants to deal with A as efficiently as possible to avoid spending money unnecessarily. The estate is relatively small but not
small enough to be covered by a small-estate affidavit. A is unrepresented but getting enough information somewhere to make W's life difficult. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:black">Initial discussion that a strongly worded letter might suffice has turned into a discussion about opening probate using the reciprocal will. <span style="background:white">Given
that A has filed the later-dated will with the court (will only, no probate), is it smart to open an otherwise needless probate with the reciprocal will? Or would that needlessly complicate matters? </span><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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is not H's only child, but A is the only child named in the later-dated will. Any advice on the most efficient way to shut A down? Or is this an issue where it's better to use the "throw spaghetti at the wall" approach? Said strongly worded letter is drafted
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