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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Garamond","serif"">Lovie,<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Garamond","serif"">I would handle it in the same way as I’d handle naming a friend as AIF. I have worked with people who change their minds about their choices and they have to destroy or revoke
a POA. Another option would be to name co-AIFs, which puts some limits on the power of the ex.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12.0pt;font-family:"Garamond","serif";color:black">Lisa E. Schuchman<br>
206-960-4212<br>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"">From:</span></b><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif""> wsbapt-bounces@lists.wsbarppt.com [mailto:wsbapt-bounces@lists.wsbarppt.com]
<b>On Behalf Of </b>Lovie Bernardi<br>
<b>Sent:</b> Wednesday, September 7, 2016 12:45 PM<br>
<b>To:</b> wsbapt@lists.wsbarppt.com<br>
<b>Subject:</b> [WSBAPT] Durable Power of Attorney for unmarried couples<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Dear listmates,<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">I am drafting DPAs for financial and health matters for a client. He is unmarried, but lives with a life partner who he wishes to name as attorney-in-fact. What are your thoughts about how to handle a potential breakup of the relationship?
If I put in a contingency that the alternate would be appointed if the relationship with the life partner was over, how would the life partner prove it
<u>wasn’t</u> over? I’m concerned the appointment of the life partner would not be honored if the relationship was intact but it could not be proven to the satisfaction of a bank. How have you handled this scenario?<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Lovie L. Bernardi</span><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Flaherty & Bernardi, PLLC</span><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif""><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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