<html><head><meta http-equiv="content-type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"></head><body dir="auto"><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><span></span></div><div><meta http-equiv="content-type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">Courtesy of the Army Times.</div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">-----------------------------------</div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span class="maintitle" style="font-weight: bold;">You know you’re</span><span class="maintitle" style="font-weight: bold;"> a military mom ...</span></span><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;">Whether you’re a mom in the military, a spouse who’s a mom, or the mom of a service member, you know the heartache of deployments and separations, and the effects of the upheaval of military moves.</div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;">But pride, patriotism and a good dose of humor are the hallmarks of the comments we received to our Facebook query “You know you’re a military mom if ...”</div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><span class="abody">Texting, calling, emailing and Skyping are as essential as eating and drinking for some. Time and again, mothers said they sleep with cellphones on their pillowsin case their child calls from afar in the middle of the night. And they will knock down</span><span class="abody"> anyone or anything in their path to get to the phone when it rings.</span></div><span class="abody"><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">And whether they’re moms of active-duty troops, active duty themselves, or spouses of troops — or all of the above — they often take on a mothering role to other active-duty members.</span></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Whatever your role or branch of service, be ready to laugh, cry — and identify.</span></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">--------------------</span></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">You know you’re a military mom ...</span></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: start;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div style="text-align: start;"><p align="justify"><div style="text-align: start;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><b><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">AIR FORCE</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></b></span></div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when your kids have traveled through and lived in more states by their 10th birthday than the average middle-aged adult.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Stephanie Mestichelli-Schopfer</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when mom is TDY and the CDC ladies tell Dad to bring the hair accessories.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Christine Anderson</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when your kiddo asks, ‘where are we moving next?!’ about every two years and can already name options for potential assignments and give their input and preferences.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Michelle Hurley Kemp</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> “... when your 5-year-old asks, at least 3 times a week, if we’ve gotten orders yet ... to Hawaii ... lol ... optimistic kiddo.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Kati Torres</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when you miss important moments of your kids’ [lives] to execute the mission, but they never mention it; your kids remind you to get your CAC and hat every morning ...”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Misty Southerland</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when your kids are playing and they scream, ‘Fire in hole.’ ”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Elizabeth Sexton</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"><b>ARMY</b></span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when at your change of responsibility, your 5-year-old tags the battalion CSM and commander and declares them ‘it.’ ”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Erica Jones Lehmkuhl</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“ ... when you run out of nursery rhymes and sing cadence to a fussy baby, and they like cadence better.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Kailey Burrus</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... if leaving on deployment brings you both exhilarating joy that you’re about to make a difference in the world while in combat and simultaneously brings you to the depths of despair to leave your children behind.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Dana Fischl</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when you call your kids from the demo range on Mother’s Day so they can hear you detonate explosives!”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Terri Christiansen</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when you’re walking through the electronics department and your 1-year-old points at a computer and yells ‘dadda, dadda!!’ ”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Abby Jackson</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when you have pumped [breast milk] in the car on the way to PT ... when you’ve pumped while at the range.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Brandi Fogle Vannoy</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> “... when your daughter says, ‘I never have to be scared, my Mommy’s a soldier and she protects us from bad guys better than a superhero can.’ ”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Stephanie Gavin</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when your kids have hugged the legs of multiple soldiers because of the uniform, before realizing that’s not their daddy.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Bethany Lopez</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when you send care packages not only to your son, but all of his battle buddies.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Cheryl Sexton Tolan</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when your 2-year-old refers to naptime as 1300.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Laura McGraw Wert</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when your daughter at her kindergarten graduation states she wants ‘to be a soldier just like my mommy’ when she grows up and it brings tears to your eyes.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Dawn Metro Flynn</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when you call cadence to get your toddlers to leave the house. ‘Your left, left, left right left.’ ”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">— Rosemarie McAllister</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><b><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">MARINE CORPS</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></b></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;">“... when your son comes home from boot camp, sits on the porch next to you and hands you a huge bundle of envelopes tied with a boot lace, and says “thank you mom for writing me all these hundreds of letters, it’s what got me through.”</span><span class="abody" style="text-align: start;"> </span></div></span><span class="abody"><div style="text-align: start;"><br></div><div style="text-align: start;"><span style="text-align: start;">— Holly Cousins-Schaefer</span></div></span></span></p></div></span></div><div style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">-----------------------------------<br><br><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Seeya 'round town, Moscow, because . . .</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">"Moscow Cares" (the most fun you can have with your pants on)</span></div><div><a href="http://www.moscowcares.com/" style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font color="#000000">http://www.MoscowCares.com</font></a></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"> </span></div><div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Tom Hansen</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Moscow, Idaho</span></div></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">"There's room at the top they are telling you still.</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">But first you must learn how to smile as you kill,</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">If you want to be like the folks on the hill."</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">- John Lennon</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"> </span></div></div></div></body></html>