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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Spin,
Mr. Crabtree, spin madly like a top in the hope that you can suck others into
believing lies. You’re buying into the phony idea that if you
repeat the lie often and loudly enough, that will give you credibility and make
your lies true.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>I’m
not sure what facts in my outline you want to dispute, so I can only address what
you seem to be implying, and that would be this:<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>“</span><span
style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Fact: a very
successful gag order was issued by Kirk hierarchy as evidenced by the fact that
while the Kirk congregation was made aware of Sitler’s predation in this
and other communities, <b><u>not</u> <u>a</u> <u>single</u></b></span><span
style='color:#1F497D'> </span><b><u><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>member</span></u></b><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'> cared enough about <b>all</b> the children in this community
– the children of their neighbors – to warn those of us not privy
to Kirk HOH meetings that a monster had been free to prey on and molest our
children for some 18 months. This from people who had – and have
continued to -- shrilly insisted that they are good neighbors and members of
the community. Needless to say, their kowtowing to that gag order makes
hollow their demands for recognition as good neighbors.”<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>I
suggest you go back and read the posts by Wilson, church elders, and church
members in here and in various forums regarding this fact because they offered
several explanations for why they didn’t disseminate information –
nor want information disseminated -- about Sitler following his adjudication 7
July 2005 beyond their own congregation. Remember, not even church
members were informed about the monster in their midst until several months
after the plea agreement.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>If
you choose not to accept their own rationalizations, then just accept that the
proof is in the pudding: <b>not one single non-Kirk neighbor with small
children in neighborhoods</b> where Sitler frequented or visited with Kirkers
and NSA students was warned by their “good” Kirk neighbors before
the story was made public nearly eleven months following Sitler’s adjudication
and about seven months (using Wilson’s date) after rank & file Kirk
members were notified. Not a single one.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Now,
let’s quickly finish up with your campaign of misinformation. You
wrote:<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>“</span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt'>Stranger still is the notion that this gag order was
effectively impressed upon . . .”</span><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>I
said nothing of the kind, so perhaps you might want to get some assistance with
reading comprehension. The judicial system was strangely silent about
Sitler’s (and Wight’s) sexual crimes, and news coverage of the crime(s)
of this (serial) pedophile was completely <b>absent</b> until eleven months
after adjudication. Why? I don’t know, but when you compare
the silence and complete lack of timely news coverage of Sitler (and Wight)
with non-Kirk sexual offenders before and after, it doesn’t take a mental
giant to see the glaring difference. The answer to the “why”
question was not adequately answered at the time, and it’s something that’s
continued to bother a whole lot of people in this community from all sides of
the fence since, not just from your imaginary “chorus”. As
you may recall, Jennifer McFarland, then LCSO PIO, provided a very informative
explanation of the policy and practice of news and information releases at the
time. Based on her explanation, my assumption is that the lofty news
sources you cite in your list dropped the ball. Big time. Maybe
they all had incompetent court beat reporters at the time – I don’t
know because not a single one of those “news” <snort> sources
ever offered explanation for why/how they missed such an important local
tragedy that directly related to the safety of this community’s children.
Maybe there were other factors at play – I don’t know. What I
do know is that the dissemination of information you deem adequate would far
more appropriately be called a complete blackout that was absolutely
inappropriate and inadequate.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Especially
. . . curious to me is why you’d include MPD and Latah County Youth Services
in your little list? LCSO was the investigative agency, not MPD; and
since Sitler was an adult at the time of his charged crimes, why would LCYS
have had any involvement? Spin and misinformation . . . that’s what
you’re good at.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Finally,
you wrote:<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>“</span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt'>The fact of the matter is that according to all local
law enforcement and authorities responsible for matters such as these, the
handling of this case by CC and its elders was exemplary”<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>LOL
– who told you that? And since when do you think LE or other
authorities responsible for matters such as these are in the business of
determining the conduct of religious leaders as “exemplary”?!?
Puff, puff, puff, Mr. Crabtree. LE cares if laws were followed or not,
and if the fact that the Kirk hierarchy didn’t break any laws makes their
handling “exemplary,” then I guess so, too was the conduct of all
of us.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Winding
up, I’ll repeat . . . <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>If
you think the dissemination factually outlined was adequate or appropriate, I
would suggest that you seek immediate medical attention to have your head put
back on your shoulders where it belongs rather than letting it remain where the
sun doesn’t shine. And, yes, we <b>are</b> noticing a trend
here: for some completely unfathomable reason, you will make any
argument, no matter how blatantly false or outlandish, to defend the Kirk while
trying to make those who speak truth objects of ridicule. Shame on you.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>First,
though, I would remind you that you are a father with children you nurtured,
love, care about, and tried to protect while raising them, and you only make
yourself look the fool by continuing to defend the handling of the Steven James
Sitler horror.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>Saundra Lund<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>Moscow, ID<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good
people to do nothing.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>~ Edmund Burke<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>***** Original material contained herein is Copyright 2008
through life plus 70 years, Saundra Lund. Do not copy, forward, excerpt,
or reproduce outside the Vision 2020 forum without the express written
permission of the author.*****<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'>From:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> g. crabtree
[mailto:jampot@roadrunner.com] <br>
<b>Sent:</b> Wednesday, April 23, 2008 3:08 PM<br>
<b>To:</b> Saundra Lund; 'keely emerinemix'; 'Sue Hovey'; vision2020@moscow.com<br>
<b>Subject:</b> Re: [Vision2020] condemning rape<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>Since I am not inclined to
accept as fact your every assertion and do not have access to shoe boxes full
of everything CC, I will address your post based strictly upon what is in it.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal> <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>You state as fact (without
providing so much as a hint of real evidence) that "a very successful gag
order was issued by church hierarchy which not a single member
violated. Even though in the past you and others that make up the me too
chorus have delighted in passing on tidbits that you claimed were provided to
you by disaffected members of the CC congregation, on this one occasion they
were monolithic in their silence. How strange.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal> <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>Stranger still is the notion
that this gag order was effectively impressed upon Wayne Rausch and the
entirety of the Latah Co. Sheriffs Dept.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>Brian Dulin and the folks in
the Latah Co. Youth Services Dept.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal> <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>Dan Weaver and every officer
and employee of the Moscow Police Dept.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>Bill Thompson and every
member of the Latah Co. Prosecuting attorneys office.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>Nathan Alford and the staff
of the Lewiston Morning Tribune and the Moscow/Pullman Daily News.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>Bear & LuJane Nisse and
Kai Eiselein at the Latah Eagle.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal> <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>Gary Cummings and the news
depts. at KRPL, KZZL, KRAO, KMAX, & KCLX.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal> <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>Evan Ellis at KQQQ.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal> <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>and every single other news
gathering and disseminating organization on the Palouse.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal> <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>And I'm the one who will make
any argument no matter how outlandish? </span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal> <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>The fact of the matter is
that according to all local law enforcement and authorities responsible for
matters such as these, the handling of this case by CC and its elders was
exemplary. I really wouldn't think that any more need be said. And yet a
plucky little band of stalwarts with a long and ongoing history of
antagonism for this particular group just happens to be the sole possessors of
the "truth" and anyone who might find this ridiculous conspiracy
theory hard to swallow is a "fool" and should be subject to
"shame." Strange, strange, strange.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>That's it, I've said my
piece. Feel free to return to making up libelous assertions and posting them as
fact. I'm going to bail before the discussion turns to the responsibility
for the JFK assassination, UFO's, and the mystery that is the obama campaign.</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt'>g</span><o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>-----
Original Message ----- <o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='background:#E4E4E4'><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>From:</span></b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a href="mailto:sslund_2007@verizon.net"
title="sslund_2007@verizon.net">Saundra Lund</a> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>To:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a
href="mailto:jampot@roadrunner.com" title="jampot@roadrunner.com">'g. crabtree'</a>
; <a href="mailto:kjajmix1@msn.com" title="kjajmix1@msn.com">'keely emerinemix'</a>
; <a href="mailto:suehovey@moscow.com" title="suehovey@moscow.com">'Sue Hovey'</a>
; <a href="mailto:vision2020@moscow.com" title="vision2020@moscow.com">vision2020@moscow.com</a>
<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Sent:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> Wednesday, April 23,
2008 10:00 AM<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Subject:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> RE: [Vision2020]
condemning rape<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Dear
Mr. Crabtree,<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>With
respect to #4 below, have you lost your mind (no disrespect intended) or do you
simply live in a parallel universe where no one else who gives a rip about
children would care to live?<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Fact:
without a doubt, Doug Wilson knew of Steven James Sitler’s heinous crimes
on 3/10/2005. There has been speculation that Wilson orchestrated
Sitler’s flight from this community to avoid contact with local law
enforcement, but we’ll stick with facts here.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Fact:
the criminal complaint was filed 7/6/2005.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Fact:
depending on which Christ Church source you want to believe, church members
were extensively informed of Sitler’s predation in our community no later
than November (that’s from Wilson himself). Other Christ Church
members claim to have known beforehand, but I’m content enough to use
Wilson’s dates in this context.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Fact:
a very successful gag order was issued by Kirk hierarchy as evidenced by the
fact that while the Kirk congregation was made aware of Sitler’s
predation in this and other communities, <b><u>not</u> <u>a</u> <u>single</u></b></span><span
style='color:#1F497D'> </span><b><u><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>member</span></u></b><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'> cared enough about <b>all</b> the children in this community
– the children of their neighbors – to warn those of us not privy
to Kirk HOH meetings that a monster had been free to prey on and molest our
children for some 18 months. This from people who had – and have
continued to -- shrilly insisted that they are good neighbors and members of
the community. Needless to say, their kowtowing to that gag order makes
hollow their demands for recognition as good neighbors.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Fact:
outside the Kirk and the judicial system (which also remained inexplicably
silent), no one in the community was informed for <b><u>eleven</u> <u>months</u></b>
following his adjudication that this monster, who came to our community to attend
NSA, had trolled for child victims in our community. The first news
article appeared in the Trib on 6/7/2006 with the Snooze quickly following on
the Trib’s coattails 6/8/2006. News coverage only happened after
the information was brought to light by others.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Fact:
compare and contrast this with news coverage of other non-Kirk local sex
offenders before and since, and it doesn’t take a genius to realize that
Svengali Doug Wilson’s gag order was successful beyond his wildest dream.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>We
will be voting on some key local offices later this year, and I for one
won’t forget who played roles in withholding this vital community safety
information, nor will I forget that our local newspapers (such as they are)
have never quite been able to rise to the challenge of providing truly
important news in a timely manner. But, I digress </span><span
style='font-family:Wingdings;color:#1F497D'>J</span><span style='font-family:
"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>So,
let’s get back to this part of what you wrote to Keely:<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"'>“</span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>4. Again, the story
was indeed disseminated, just not in the manner that would have made you the
happiest. Are we noticing a trend here?”<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>If
you think the dissemination factually outlined was adequate or appropriate, I
would suggest that you seek immediate medical attention to have your head put
back on your shoulders where it belongs rather than letting it remain where the
sun doesn’t shine. And, yes, we <b>are</b> noticing a trend
here: for some completely unfathomable reason, you will make any
argument, no matter how blatantly false or outlandish, to defend the Kirk while
trying to make those who speak truth objects of ridicule. Shame on you.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>So,
have at it – we all know you will – let ‘er rip, Mr.
Crabtree.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>First,
though, I would remind you that you are a father with children you nurtured,
love, care about, and tried to protect while raising them, and you only make
yourself look the fool by continuing to defend the handling of the Steven James
Sitler horror.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>JMHO,<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>Saundra Lund<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>Moscow, ID<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good
people to do nothing.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>~ Edmund Burke<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
color:#1F497D'>***** Original material contained herein is Copyright 2008
through life plus 70 years, Saundra Lund. Do not copy, forward, excerpt,
or reproduce outside the Vision 2020 forum without the express written
permission of the author.*****<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
</div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
<div>
<div style='border:none;border-top:solid #B5C4DF 1.0pt;padding:3.0pt 0in 0in 0in'>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'>From:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'>
vision2020-bounces@moscow.com [mailto:vision2020-bounces@moscow.com] <b>On
Behalf Of </b>g. crabtree<br>
<b>Sent:</b> Wednesday, April 23, 2008 7:35 AM<br>
<b>To:</b> keely emerinemix; Sue Hovey; vision2020@moscow.com<br>
<b>Subject:</b> Re: [Vision2020] condemning rape<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
</div>
<p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>1.
No change</span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>2.It
seems that your personal standard IS the issue since you go out of your
way to enumerate it and then take every opportunity to point out instances
where you are outraged at its not having been met.
Unquestionably "horror, outrage, grief, and humility" were
expressed during the course of this incident. Since you didn't detect any sack
cloth and ash, nor any self flagellation, it didn't quite meet your personal
standard. Not enough to satisfy Keely is not the same as not at all.</span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>The
cartoon you mention while perhaps being in questionable taste under the
circumstances hardly meets the qualification for "scatological."</span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>3.Why
not go door to door and notify every household in the greater Quad Cities area?
The churches mechanism for disseminating information is, apparently, head of
household meetings. Another case of just because it's not done your way doesn't
mean it wasn't done.</span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>4.
Again, the story was indeed disseminated, just not in the manner that would
have made you the happiest. Are we noticing a trend here?</span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>5.
I suppose we will have to agree to disagree here. Technically true is the same
as absolutely true. My memory is pretty good and I recall no moment during the
incident where it wasn't plain where the defendant went to church.</span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>6.
" I believe that....." Once again we're back to your personal
opinion. As I said before, good counsel can be had from a myriad of sources. A
license and a PhD do not give a person an exclusive franchise on good advise.</span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>7.
I can't imagine how questioning a blatantly false statement (Ms. Hovey's
original foolish remark) would give you the impression that "I don't like
girls." As a male, I am unqualified to comment on this topic? Perhaps you
should check in with my wife and two daughters</span><span style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> </span><span style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>for the straight skinny on how
much I don't like them. I keep them safely locked up in a pumpkin shell in my
back yard. Watch out for the dog. (he's a dude)</span><span style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>And
the extra credit question's answer will have to be, for the most part, no. I
see nothing about this faith community that makes them any more or less
"objectionable" than any of the other congregations in our community
that I have nothing but respect for. Obviously, you can't say the same thing.
Why is it that only this group is singled out for your special brand of
scrutiny? It would seem to me that many denominations would fail to live up to
the Keely Mix personal standard.</span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>g</span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<blockquote style='border:none;border-left:solid black 1.5pt;padding:0in 0in 0in 4.0pt;
margin-left:3.75pt;margin-top:5.0pt;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:5.0pt'>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>-----
Original Message ----- <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal style='background:#E4E4E4'><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>From:</span></b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a href="mailto:kjajmix1@msn.com"
title="kjajmix1@msn.com">keely emerinemix</a> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>To:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a
href="mailto:jampot@roadrunner.com" title="jampot@roadrunner.com">g. crabtree</a>
; <a href="mailto:suehovey@moscow.com" title="suehovey@moscow.com">Sue Hovey</a>
; <a href="mailto:vision2020@moscow.com" title="vision2020@moscow.com">vision2020@moscow.com</a>
<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Sent:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> Tuesday, April 22,
2008 9:07 PM<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Subject:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> RE: [Vision2020]
condemning rape<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
</div>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:12.0pt'><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'>Once again, by the numbers, as you say:<br>
<br>
1. Wilson called the cops -- on that, we both agree.<br>
<br>
2. My "personal standard" for pastoral behavior during a rape
scandal, while reasonable, isn't the issue. I'm thankful that Wilson has
an authority far, far above me who will judge his attitude. As for
specific examples of sarcastic humor during what should have been a time of
repentance and self-reflection, I gave you one: the cute little cartoon
about the young male "youth group leader" ogling a young, curvaceous
girl. I think I would, perhaps, have set aside my love of snicker-snicker,
sophomoric cartoon art about lusty male ministers if I were a pastor whose
congregation had been rocked by the rape of toddlers by one of its male
students at its classical Christian college. <br>
<br>
3. Why not tell the women directly? <br>
<br>
4. And why not tell the community? The media's dissemination of the
story was shoddy and tepid. The offender's home church was open and
immediate about printing his name and the nature of his crimes once those
committed in that community were revealed. Not a word from the Kirk until
the story broke on Vision, courtesy of an outraged former congregant.<br>
<br>
5. Your recollection fails you here. Wilson insisted the man was
not a member of the congregation. Technically true, and yet patently
false.<br>
<br>
6. I believe that an untrained minister who holds to the doctrines of
sexuality, patriarchy, submission and hierarchy that Wilson does should offer
no more than prayer and comfort, not counseling for sex offenses, and that only
after he humbly examines his own doctrinal foundations. The man had a
licensed therapist in Lewiston. That he had a minister here in
Wilson is undisputed; the perpetrator may call him "pastor," but I
certainly wouldn't, and don't.<br>
<br>
7. "Girl-power Christianity"? Good heavens. This is
my religious faith, not a softball team. Fortunately, though, my God
loves girls who live in His power. It's guys like you who don't like us,
and yet somehow we go on.<br>
<br>
And a bonus question: Is there anything -- ANYTHING -- that you've seen
from Christ Church or its ministries or elders or pastor that you've found at
all objectionable . . . ever? <br>
<br>
Keely<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'>
<hr size=2 width="100%" align=center>
</span></div>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:12.0pt'><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'>From: jampot@roadrunner.com<br>
To: kjajmix1@msn.com; suehovey@moscow.com; vision2020@moscow.com<br>
Subject: Re: [Vision2020] condemning rape<br>
Date: Tue, 22 Apr 2008 13:31:03 -0700<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Ms.
Mix, Thank you for response and benevolent wishes for my days progress. While
your post in no way provides an answer to the manner whereby a group of
men tolerated and protected sexual predators, (No surprise there. They didn't
and you couldn't) it does raise a question or two not the least of which would
have to be by what authority do you feel competent to set a minimum standard
for a biblical response? That aside, It seems to me the incident WAS dealt with
inside your parameters. By the numbers: </span><span style='font-size:
10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>1.
No possible disagreement here.</span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:
"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>2.
Here it seems that it was your PERSONAL standard that was not met. To
assert that there was no expression of horror, grief, etc. is simply without
merit. That it didn't satisfy your standards is no surprise. In all
likelyhood nothing short of group immolation could have, I suspect. (I
would ask for a specific example of "scatological" sarcasm from
B&M but I imagine that it would arrive in a manner similar to Ms.
Hovey's response to my initial question, either not at all or far short of the
mark.)</span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>3. Do
you really imagine that when the husbands and fathers were informed that any of
them thought it too inconsequential to mention to their wives? Anything
interesting at the head of household meeting, dear? Gee whiz, honey there was
something I was going to tell you about but its slipped my mind. Oh well,
what's for supper? I very much doubt that any variation of that conversation
took place.</span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>4.
It would be most unseemly (to say nothing of potentially illegal prior to
trial) for a pastor to hold some sort of a press conference in a situation such
as this. The media disseminated the story as is their job. </span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>5.
I can't really speak to this issue since I have no first hand knowledge but, my
impression was that when asked it was made clear that the person in question
was a student at NSA and while not technically a member of the congregation was
most assuredly "one of theirs." Nothing unethical and no pretending
that there was no connection to the best of my recollection.</span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>6. Woefully,
breathtakingly, unqualified to offer council? Sage advise can come from
any number of sources. I very much doubt that his pastor offered up any that
was bad. Heck, even I could make a few suggestions that the miscreant wouldn't
go wrong by following. </span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>7.
And here we come full circle. Why would anyone feel particularly obligated to
heed your "admonishment" with regard to this matter? Clearly you
and your particular version of girl power Christianity will never mesh with the
Kirk. Trying at every turn to tear it down utilizing innuendo, falsehoods, and
misrepresentations doesn't come across as particularly Christ like
either.</span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Thank
you for the dialog and a pleasant afternoon to you,</span><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>g
</span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='background:#E4E4E4'><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>From:</span></b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a href="mailto:kjajmix1@msn.com"
title="kjajmix1@msn.com">keely emerinemix</a> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>To:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a
href="mailto:suehovey@moscow.com" title="suehovey@moscow.com">Sue Hovey</a> ; <a
href="mailto:jampot@roadrunner.com" title="jampot@roadrunner.com">g. crabtree</a>
; <a href="mailto:vision2020@moscow.com" title="vision2020@moscow.com">vision2020@moscow.com</a>
<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Sent:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> Tuesday, April 22,
2008 8:54 AM<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Subject:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> RE: [Vision2020]
condemning rape<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
</div>
<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:12.0pt'><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'>Gary, you believe Sue engaged in character
assassination and bigotry by asserting that Christ Church consists of a group
of patriarchal men willing to tolerate, even protect, males in their
congregation who are sexual predators. These are her words, not
mine. I agree with her general point, but I don't really know how they
would tolerate, even protect, another sexual predator. I only know how
they acted when one was revealed. And so I'll propose a minimum standard
for responsibly, Biblically, dealing with active sexual predators who rape
children in the congregation and perhaps elsewhere.<br>
<br>
1. Tell the police, which Wilson did. <br>
2. Express horror, outrage, grief, and humility. The public face of
Christ Church during this was defensive and arrogant; privately, on his blog,
Wilson continued the usual scatological, snarky sarcasm that he trades in so
richly. Remember the "youth minister" cartoon? In context
or out, a real knee-slapper, that.<br>
3. Then tell the mothers, who are usually the ones who would notice
trauma-driven behaviors or odd physical changes in their children, and tell the
fathers. Wilson didn't. The male heads of households were told; it
was up to them whether or not to bring the information home to their
subordinate wives.<br>
4. Tell the community. Wilson didn't, even though the perp
lived in Moscow and presumably emerged at some point from the Kirk social
network.<br>
5. Don't deny that he's "one of yours." Be honest here --
Wilson took pains to point out that the man was not an official member of
Christ Church or Trinity Reformed. The man studied in the Kirk's New St.
Andrews, attended weekly service at CC, lived in a Kirk family's home as a
boarder in a program overseen by Kirk elders, came to Moscow to be part of
Christ Church, and would have, prior to the crimes, been identified as a Christ
Church kind of guy. I think that's what people mean and not the absence
of official enrollment when they say he was "from Christ
Church." I think that honesty about the man's connection to your
church fellowship is what people mean by "ethical" and
"straightforward."<br>
6. As the justice system adjudicates the case, which it did here with
surprising results, be available to comfort the families and minister grace to
the offender. Wilson believes he did that. He also counseled the
predator, something he is woefully, breathtakingly, unqualified to do.<br>
7. Examine if there's anything in the pastor's teachings or beliefs that
might encourage bad behavior or misapprehends the Scriptures and doctrines of
the Church. In response to my admonishment that the Kirk elders do so,
one of them, our pal Dale, simply responds by making fun of Tom Hansen. I
think that wasn't quite what I meant by "sober reflection," and I'm
pretty sure Christ didn't.<br>
<br>
OK, gc . . . have at it, and have a lovely day.<br>
<br>
Keely<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:12.0pt'><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'>From: suehovey@moscow.com<br>
To: jampot@roadrunner.com; kjajmix1@msn.com; vision2020@moscow.com<br>
Subject: Re: [Vision2020] condemning rape<br>
Date: Tue, 22 Apr 2008 01:26:16 -0700<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>A wildly
reckless assertion!!! Character assassination and
bigotry? Coming from you, Gary, I would call it
displacement. </span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Sue
H. </span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:
"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<div>
<p class=MsoNormal style='background:#E4E4E4'><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>From:</span></b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a href="mailto:jampot@roadrunner.com"
title="jampot@roadrunner.com">g. crabtree</a> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>To:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a
href="mailto:suehovey@moscow.com" title="suehovey@moscow.com">Sue Hovey</a> ; <a
href="mailto:kjajmix1@msn.com" title="kjajmix1@msn.com">keely emerinemix</a> ; <a
href="mailto:vision2020@moscow.com" title="vision2020@moscow.com">vision2020@moscow.com</a>
<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Sent:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> Monday, April 21,
2008 3:13 PM<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Subject:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> Re: [Vision2020]
condemning rape<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
</div>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>I
defy you to provide even a shred of documentation for the wildly reckless
assertion made in the final sentence of your post. It is my understanding that
when evidence of misconduct became known within the "congregation" in
question it was dealt with promptly and in an absolutely correct manner. To
claim anything else is unsupportable character assassination and bigotry. It is
also, unfortunately, par for the course with a certain group which prides
itself on its unfailing tolerance.</span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
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style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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Original Message ----- <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal style='background:#E4E4E4'><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>From:</span></b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a href="mailto:suehovey@moscow.com"
title="suehovey@moscow.com">Sue Hovey</a> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>To:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a
href="mailto:kjajmix1@msn.com" title="kjajmix1@msn.com">keely emerinemix</a> ; <a
href="mailto:vision2020@moscow.com" title="vision2020@moscow.com">vision2020@moscow.com</a>
<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Sent:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> Monday, April 21,
2008 12:14 PM<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Subject:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> Re: [Vision2020]
condemning rape<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Keely,
I appreciate that you read Dale's blog and keep us in the loop. It's
important we are called upon to remember a significant number of people in
this community are willing to twist a tragic issue and use it as
a bludgeon to attack those of us who define ourselves as liberal. I
think we shouldn't be surprised this would be his issue now. He's
representative of a group of patriarchial men, willing to tolerate, even
protect, males in their congregation who are sexual
predators. </span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:
"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Sue
H.</span><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<div>
<p class=MsoNormal style='background:#E4E4E4'><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>From:</span></b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a href="mailto:kjajmix1@msn.com"
title="kjajmix1@msn.com">keely emerinemix</a> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>To:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> <a
href="mailto:vision2020@moscow.com" title="vision2020@moscow.com">vision2020@moscow.com</a>
<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Sent:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> Sunday, April 20,
2008 3:16 PM<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
<div>
<p class=MsoNormal><b><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'>Subject:</span></b><span
style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"'> [Vision2020]
condemning rape<o:p></o:p></span></p>
</div>
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<p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:10.0pt;font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='margin-bottom:12.0pt'><span style='font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"'>Visionaires,<br>
<br>
The Everlasting Blogstalker, Dale Courtney, laments today on his Right-Mind
blog that Moscow's liberals are quick to jump on the bandwagon of disapproval
of the recent revelations that young girls in the FLDS polygamist cult in West
Texas are routinely forced into sexual relationships with older men who believe
that these polygamous "celestial marriages" are essential to the
practice of their faith, while remaining silent about things like young girls
being forced to "marry" older men in some Muslim cultures. Dale
believes that the shameful tolerance his liberal foes exhibit toward the
behavior of some Muslims is hypocritical in light of their disgust over offshoot-Mormon
group practices, and he, like a good "Christian" libertarian man of
chest, must make note of it. It seems that we liberals just can't muster
any disapproval of Islam, so busy are we, I suppose, hating groups that call
themselves Christian. <br>
<br>
Certainly Dale's worldview is energized by the thought that he and his pals are
witnesses to the persecution of the Church from their vantage point of those
suffering under it. It's a silly assertion, of course, as is his smug
denouncement of feminized, morally bankrupt liberals who pick and choose their
objects of outrage from a tortured position of ethical spinelessness. I
am a liberal; I know of no one, liberal or conservative, who isn't disgusted by
the reality of adult men who engage in sex with children. I'm not aware
of anyone who thinks that religion excuses the horrors that men visit upon
their victims, whether that religion is a perversion of Christianity or a
perversion of Islam. Because most of the people I know are rational, decent
people, they are angered by child rape and outraged that it can be, and is,
committed as a sort of religious expression. Atheists and the religious
are united in believing that no God would be honored by inflicting horror on
the little ones he created.<br>
<br>
I don't know if Muhammed had a sexual relationship with a nine-year-old girl,
as Dale asserts, just as I don't know if Joseph Smith slept with underage
girls. My not being Muslim or Mormon, or part of any group that claims to
be the "true expression" of either, has nothing to do with the sexual
sin of the men each faith reveres as prophets. I am much more concerned
about my own faith and the men who claim it, and who, as Christians, perpetuate
patriarchy, hierarchy, power, manipulation and sexism in their homes, churches,
and relationships. If, for example, there were a Christian church
in town that had witnessed one or two specific instances of their men preying
on young children or teenage girls, I would expect that that church would
reflect on any connection between the rape committed by their young students of
patriarchy and power, sexism and sexuality, and the practices and teaching that
the predators received from their teachers. I would expect that that
church would publicly repent of any gender-based arrogance, hierarchy, or
wielding of power it had exhibited. I would hope that its leaders would
examine a theology that has as its origin the reality of a post-Fall seizing of
ungodly power and descent into violence, rather than the redemptive, radical
justice and equality ushered in by the Savior they claim to worship. I
would pray that such a church would see that its elevation of male power and
privilege, its defense of patriarchy, its practice of gender hierarchy and
unilateral submission, and its defensive clinging to the ways of the world and
not the fruit of the Spirit are sinful, reflecting the depotism of evil and not
the gentleness of Christlike love. I would expect that. <br>
<br>
I would be disappointed.<br>
<br>
And so I will lead the charge, if that is indeed what Dale's asking for,
by announcing that this middle-aged, progressive, evangelical homemaker, and
everyone she knows, thinks men who sleep with girls are evil.
There. Now that the totality of liberal condemnation of rape and
pedophilia has been thusly offered to this erstwhile elder, let's see if he and
his other patriarchal heads of household pause and examine if the perpetuation
of sexual violence on the weak in the name of religion has more to do with bad
theology, teaching, and practice than with the perceived indifference of
Moscow's liberals. It could be the start of an incredible spiritual
renewal, revolutionary in scope and profound in effect. Or, Dale could
just write this off as the emotional blather of someone who just doesn't know
her place, a position that is probably a lot easier to undertake while enjoying
the Sabbath with other puny patriarchs. <br>
<br>
I guess we'll see . . . <br>
<br>
Keely<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
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