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<div>Anyone who has studied pathological personalities can tell you that some of the most deceptive and dangerous people can look you straight in a eye, shake your hand firmly, while they engage in the most self conscious lies imaginable. A politician may also appear commanding in person, firm handshake and all, and still kowtow to polls, popularity or their biggest campaign donors or lobbyists. This is the reality of political life, and firm handshakes are just part of this game. And don't forget the baby kissing!
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<div>From "Animals" by Pink Floyd:</div>
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<div>After a while you can work on points for style<br>Like the club tie, and the firm handshake<br>A sudden look in the eye, and an easy smile<br>You have to be trusted by the people that you lie to<br>So that when they turn their backs on you
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<p>Phil Rose explains that, "the dog suggests that eventually the attacker can adopt a deceitful, businesslike persona – characterized by a deceptively friendly 'look in the eye', and a fraudulent smile that can be called upon whenever necessary."
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<p>In short, I would neither reject nor approve of a politician based on a whether or not they had a firm handshake or looked someone directly in the eye.</p>
<p>Want politicians to me more honest? Lessen the domination of political life by big money; campaign donations, lobbyists, corporate revolving doors between the private sector and political office, etc. To discover what loyalties a politician has that will dictate their conduct in office, follow the money trail that got them into office. This will be one of the most reliable measures of how they will conduct themselves.
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<div>Ted Moffett<br> </div>
<div><span class="gmail_quote">On 1/14/07, <b class="gmail_sendername">Paul Rumelhart</b> <<a href="mailto:godshatter@yahoo.com">godshatter@yahoo.com</a>> wrote:</span>
<blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="PADDING-LEFT: 1ex; MARGIN: 0px 0px 0px 0.8ex; BORDER-LEFT: #ccc 1px solid">Kai Eiselein wrote:<br><br>> A limp handshake and the inability to look me in the eye.<br>> Both, to me, show a lack confidence. That lack of confidence will lead
<br>> to waffling and paying more attention to "whats popular" rather than<br>> "whats right".<br>> I'd like my candidates to have the spine to stand up for what they<br>> believe is right, the pollsters, consultants and "experts" be damned.
<br>> (Of course, having them generally in line with my view is a plus.)<br>> In other words, I want them to lead.<br>><br><br><br>A person with a limp handshake has got to be better than someone who<br>will forcefully move us in the wrong direction. In my opinion, our
<br>current President is a wonderful example of just that.<br><br>I think the whole "firm handshake" thing is overrated. Someone who is<br>used to dealing with subtleties in today's world might just shake your
<br>hand just hard enough to show he means it but not hard enough to show<br>that he's trying to compete with you to avoid engaging your "alpha male"<br>response. Someone who is compassionate instead of "macho" might just
<br>grip your hand warmly and softly, to show that they care. Not to<br>mention that someone who thinks he has to forcefully grip everybody's<br>hand might just be tired enough not to grip yours hard enough if it's
<br>the ten-thousandth hand he's shaken that day.<br><br>I'd prefer a little push in the right direction vs. a big push in the<br>wrong direction.<br><br>Of course, we may not agree on what direction is the right one, but I'd
<br>rather the direction itself be the biggest concern.<br><br>Paul<br><br>=======================================================<br>List services made available by First Step Internet,<br>serving the communities of the Palouse since 1994.
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