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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:
12.0pt'>J,<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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12.0pt'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:
12.0pt'>I disagree. <st1:City w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Wilson</st1:place></st1:City>
seems to use women to control the men at times.<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:
12.0pt'>As for <st1:City w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Dickinson</st1:place></st1:City>,
I believe he persevered with an unfaithful wife far longer than the typical man
would. I do not believe you speak the truth about him. There is
even more evidence against your claims, but there is no reason to present such
private information to Vision 2020.<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><st1:City w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on"><font size=3
face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:12.0pt'>Wilson</span></font></st1:place></st1:City>
would not say that adultery is “understandable.” If a woman had
withheld sex from her husband and her husband committed adultery, pastoral
oversight would include speaking to the woman about her withholding sex in
addition to rebuking the man for giving his wife possible grounds for a divorce.
I take it as common sense that a husband and wife should please one another in
part for the purpose of protecting each other from an adulteress relationship. <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:
12.0pt'>Thanks,<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:
12.0pt'>Michael <o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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12.0pt'><o:p> </o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal style='text-autospace:none'><font size=3
face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:12.0pt'>Additionally, if the
woman does not fit the man's definition of what a woman/wife/mother should be
like or is somehow "damaged goods" and would not "look
good" for the man, she is out. The best example of that is the
Dickison case, but others do exist in your church.<o:p></o:p></span></font></p>
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<p class=MsoNormal><font size=3 face="Times New Roman"><span style='font-size:
12.0pt'>When one member of the church was "caught" cheating on his
wife (again) while he was removed from attending services for three weeks, SHE
(and the rest of the women in the church) was told (by Dougie) that it is understandable
why a man would do such a thing if the wife is not "performing her wifely
duties." He admonished the women of the church to make sure they
were doing what they should to "please her man" so that he</span></font><font
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would not feel the need to look for it outside the marriage.</span></font><o:p></o:p></p>
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