[Vision2020] Mary Cheney' Political Baby (Leonard Pitts Jr.)

[Tom Hansen]

>From today's (February 12, 2007) Spokesman Review -

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Mary Cheney's political baby
Leonard Pitts Jr. 
Miami Herald
February 12, 2007

Five words you will never hear from me again in life:

I agree with James Dobson.

Dr. Dobson is the founder of Focus on the Family, a conservative activist
group, and ordinarily I couldn't see eye to eye with him on the day of the
week. But I agree with him about Mary Cheney.

He wrote about the vice president's pregnant lesbian daughter in a Time
magazine essay in December. Here's part of what he said:

"With all due respect to Cheney and her partner, Heather Poe, the majority
of more than 30 years of social-science evidence indicates that children do
best on every measure of well-being when raised by their married mother and
father. That is not to say Cheney and Poe will not love their child. But
love alone is not enough to guarantee healthy growth and development. The
two most loving women in the world cannot provide a daddy for a little boy -
any more than the two most loving men can be complete role models for a
little girl."
 
In other words, fathers matter, something we seem to have forgotten, so busy
are we pretending that women and men are interchangeable. My problem with
Cheney and Poe is the same problem I'd have with a heterosexual single mom
who decided to make herself a baby without benefit of a man in her life. It
seems part and parcel of the diminution of fatherhood.

Adopt a child? Sure. Are you gay? Fine. Forced to rear a child alone after
you've been widowed or abandoned? God bless. But please don't make this
tacit statement that fathers don't matter. They do.

That said, who among us believes the ongoing uproar over Mary Cheney's baby
springs solely, or even primarily, from concerns about the need for fathers?
What has people exercised isn't that no dad will be in the child's life, but
that two moms will.

Cheney broke her silence on the subject last week. Speaking in New York on a
panel sponsored by Glamour magazine, she gestured toward her stomach and
said, "This is a baby. This is a blessing from God. It is not a political
statement. It is not a prop to be used in a debate by people on either side
of an issue. It is my child."

She is wrong. What Mary Cheney has in her womb is both a child and a
political statement. One is reminded of how a simple act like drinking from
a public fountain once became a political statement because some people said
other people ought not have the right to do such things.

Similarly, although women all over America are carrying babies right now,
Mary Cheney and any other lesbian woman who does the same unavoidably makes
a political statement. Because some people believe they ought not have the
right to do such things.

And no small number of those people serve or support the administration her
father represents. The week before Mary Cheney spoke her piece, Dick Cheney
had a testy exchange with Wolf Blitzer of CNN. Blitzer asked whether the
veep would like to respond to conservatives who have criticized his
daughter.

Mr. Charm barked that Blitzer was "out of line."

He, too, is wrong. The Bush administration has used gays as Southern
politicians once used (and often, still do use) blacks - as scapegoats,
boogeymen, distractions. Largely because of that, Heather Poe will have no
legal parental rights to "her" child.

Dick Cheney is that administration's No. 2 official. So there is nothing
"out of line" in asking him about any of this.

Still, I feel for Mary Cheney. It can't be easy to have people impose their
narratives upon your pregnancy. But this particular pregnancy has the effect
of putting a face on the abstract. What many of us have discussed in theory,
we must now contend with in fact.

And maybe the bottom line is that the baby will do what babies always do: It
will change the dynamic. It will say, here I am, world, ready or not.

Seems to me that's a political statement, too.

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Seeya round town, Moscow.

Tom Hansen
Moscow, Idaho

"It is possible to read the history of this country as one long struggle to
extend the liberties established in our Constitution to everyone in
America."

- Molly Ivins