[Vision2020] Message from a Christ Church Wife

[ChristChurch Wife]

Dear Visionaries,
 
I am a Christ Church wife.  Of the many of things I could write, I decided in the end that what I’m about to write is the most important.  I realize there’s no reason why you should trust an anonymous posting like mine but it's my hope that somehow you'll decide to read it anyway.
 
It’s amazing how God has been so merciful to Christ Church/Trinity members through this forum.  Many of you have been such a comfort to me and you don’t even know it.  It’s hard to belong to a church whose pastor treats people the way Doug Wilson does, especially those who oppose him publicly.  No, it’s not hard, I take that back.  It’s horrible.  It’s become a nightmare. It’s shame and outrage and grief that no amount of tears can wash away. Part of me wants to write a thousand more words but I won’t waste your time.  Why?  Because of the glaring question that logically follows: “Then why don’t you leave that church?”  I'm working on it as hard as I can. Some day I will get out but when I leave I refuse to go alone.  I will be taking my family with me.  I will not allow my marriage to be destroyed or my children split apart in the process. Slowly and consistently my husband has begun to heed the words I speak to him regarding Christ Church.  The day is!
  coming
 when his eyes will be fully open and his faith will lead the way.  That is the day we’ll leave.  I believe that with all my heart.  It's coming.  But even then, the road to recovery will be long. That's okay.  I'm not deceived.  My marriage will survive and we'll be fine again someday.  Nobody said that only husbands are responsible to protect their families. Wives are called to do the same. Mine is also a rescue and recovery mission and you, on this forum, have been an incredible blessing in this long, difficult process. 
 
My reason for posting today is because I want to say thank you. With all my heart I thank you for how you do your best to help open the eyes of Christ Church/Trinity people. (I dislike that word "Kirkers.") Thank you for the insight and careful observations you've brought to issue after issue concerning Christ Church.  I especially appreciate how determined you are in your resolve to speak forth.  Thank you for your example of courage, for exposing the tactics of Doug Wilson and refuting them. For remaining vigilant no matter how Christ Church leaders respond to you. Thank you for the humorous statements that have literally made my day so many times.  It’s amazing how much strength one can get from humor. Thank you for all the personal time you've given in posting.  And most of all, thank you for your compassion for Christ Church wives and children and even our husbands that has comforted me time and time again. It’s been overwhelming.
 
I've learned so much about people from Vision 2020.  Your service to the Palouse is unquestionable. People who don't even know me care about me and in their own way have tried to help me. My mind has been stretched.  My world has perspectives it never had before. I’ve gained more understanding and compassion for others in ways that have made me a far better person.  I don't have to agree with everything written on a post to be able to say thank you for writing it.  I see in you a true desire to make the Palouse a better place to live.  I see individuals trying and one by one it’s working. Thank you.  Thank you with all my heart for what you’ve done for me as a person and Christian.
 
If I may, I would like to say a special thanks to Tom Hansen for his "Not on the Palouse" site.  God only knows how many people have been spared the grief I've known because of it. For their lives sake, I thank you.
 
Because the Daily News, understandably, will not accept anonymous letters I’d also like to publicly thank Vera White for her brave column.  She has withstood the vehemence of Wilson's world for years and done it with remarkable grace. She never ceases to amaze me with her lion's heart. Vera's example of courage and integrity in journalism has inspired me more than she’ll ever know.  Even if I don't agree with every word she says, she's my hero. Thank you, Vera.  Thank you forever.  
 
Thank you, Vision 2020, for allowing me to post this.  
 
With deepest gratitude and respect,
A Christ Church wife
 

		
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