[Vision2020] Constitutional Ban on Gay Marriage
Douglas
dougwils@moscow.com
Tue, 05 Aug 2003 08:38:50 -0700
Visionaries,
Donovan asks, "how can one person swear to be monogamist to more than one
person? Is this not an important part of marriage?" This is the point. We
*used* to think so. But then, we *used* to think that marriage involved a
man and a woman. Why do we retain what we retain and why do we jettison
what we jettison? By what standard?
And multiple partners is not necessarily the same thing as polygamy. You
could also have polyandry, or multiple homosexual partners. And if the
whole business is consensual, on what basis do you deny them a licence down
at the county courthouse? On what basis do you intervene in the PRIVATE
SEXUAL LIVES of this cute little seventeen-some?
Donovan raises a host of practical questions, which obviously need to be
anticipated in those handy-dandy-all-purpose private secular contracts
we've been talking about so much lately. That's all marriage is, right? A
matter of practical law? Such conundra would provide a good deal of work
for attorneys and so on, but I am sure we can get the bugs worked out.
After all, our primary concern should be to get the government OUT OF THE
BEDROOM. I am astonished that Ralph and Donovan are still interested, after
all these years of enlightenment, in trying to impose their own arbitrary
code of ethics on the private sexual practices of consenting adults who
don't agree with them. This is astonishing. I am, as they say, boggled. But
I will try hard to compose myself.
Cordially,
Douglas Wilson